I hate to over-analyze any sexual kink because I think it takes me out of the moment. Sexual feelings are better felt than thought. However, this is one sexual kink that I have thought a lot about to the point of over-analyzing. I have a theory about why squashing is appealing to someone like myself.
It's about domination. I'm not talking about cruel, humiliating, dominatrix, type stuff. I'm talking about feeling utterly powerless under a woman's control. And it's about her control being totally effortless. She doesn't overwhelm you with physical strength, she overwhelms you with her weight. She doesn't have to do anything but sit down to be in charge. The heavier she is the more powerless the person underneath her feels and the greater control she has over them.
As to why this is such a huge turn-on to some of us FA's I do have a theory but nobody asked for it and it might be too much information.
It's about domination. I'm not talking about cruel, humiliating, dominatrix, type stuff. I'm talking about feeling utterly powerless under a woman's control. And it's about her control being totally effortless. She doesn't overwhelm you with physical strength, she overwhelms you with her weight. She doesn't have to do anything but sit down to be in charge. The heavier she is the more powerless the person underneath her feels and the greater control she has over them.
As to why this is such a huge turn-on to some of us FA's I do have a theory but nobody asked for it and it might be too much information.