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ok let me ask u this ladies.

how many of u when u finally line up that meet and greet with someone online and u are off to meet him..and this goes thru your mind making u almost cancel or in my case have

1. does he have a big enough car for me to sit in ...or worse a car and not a truck that u need a ladder to get in!! yep that has happened to me LOL

2. and  is he taking me some places where the sitting is good..not crowed or worse yet the chairs are to small for my ass! yep happened to me more than once.

3. is he gonna be more worried about other "stare " at us that he ignores me ..

i mean going out on a date is tough enough but as a ssbb so much more we have to ASK before we go out and i so hate asking and explaining why i am asking .

does anyone else have this same problem ?

i mean its hard and embarrassing to get to the restaurant and u see right off the bat that the chairs are to small. what do u do.. u never meet this man before and u don't want to be embarrassed trying to squeeze in the chair and look weird. .and from the guys point of view u ever see n this happen and how did u handle it?

Hello TNT_Bombshell:

I will give you the perspective from a guy's standpoint.

1. Somethings just require understanding - whenever I have been on a date with a SSBBW- many times you have to "educate" the resturant staff on what is going on - most hostess feel that it's one size fits all when it comes to sitting and it just doesn't work that way. So - I've had NO Problems just making a gentle suggestion for a more accommodating sitting arrangements.

2. One thing a date could do - is to scope a resturaunt before hand- just go in and ask for a takeout menu and then they can get an idea what the seating is like.

3. As far as being in public- it really depends atwhat stage the person is at. As for me - I have always been proud of my preference in dating SSBBW. Maybe folks don't notice (could be a cultural thing) ir the fact that I'ma big husky guy and like to lift weights- but, as far as stares- they don't bother me- I just hold the hand of my date and that is all that matters ....

Hope this helps some

Been there. Done that. Bought the t-shirt! I take the stares as compliments. Obviously I am doing something right! Hope this helps you some TNT bombshell  :-)