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After my wife and I got engaged we started getting a lot of catalogs in the mail. We got a catalogue from Adam and Eve and she thought it would be fun to order some videos. We did.  The lesbian scenes were our a big turn on.  So we started ordering only lesbian videos then BBW lesbian videos which was our biggest turn on.  I asked my wife if she was a lesbian or bisexual and she said no but she likes watching women have sex because it is more sensual. I believed her. Years later we went away on vacation without the children. The last night of the vacation we went to the hotel bar for a couple of drinks. W noticed these 2 gorgeous BBWS at another table wearing sexy dresses. My wife kept making comments about how beautiful they looked but she was getting a little drunk so we went back to our room. When we got to the room she started to take my clothes off and I started to undress her. We then got into bed together and she pulled me down to her vagina and all she wanted me to do was eat her pussy. After we finished having sex my wife told me something I never expected. She said she  enjoys me eating her out as much as she likes it when I fuck her with my dick. She then told me she likes women but she's way to afraid to do anything about it. I told her I would be very okay with it and support her desires. She got emotional and we made love again and both of us fell asleep. The next morning I told her how happy I was that she opened up about it to me. She said she was glad she told me but asked that we not talk about it again and after talking things out I agreed. Through the years my wife has made friends with some lesbian couples but as far as i know she is still afraid to be with another woman. Last week I had to use my wife's laptop and she left her messages open. I saw she went to a party got drunk and kissed a woman. The woman was a friend. The woman did not respond well to the kiss and my wife responded that she was drunk and did not remember kissing her. I thought my wife seemed troubled the last couple of days but she has not said anything to me. My wife loosens up when she is drunk but she never forgets anything. If I tell my wife I saw her messages she would get very angry. So I took a chance and spoke to a lesbian couple that she is good friends with and they said I should tell her but they also said it wouldn't be so bad if I could find a bi woman to somehow unsuspectingly meet her and see what happens.Any Bi BBW volunteers? (lol) Any other suggestions?