You all know I have been Queen Raqui for almost 6 years now. I have made many friends all over the world. I have met people and emailed with some nice people. Some only by messenger. But the ones who actually got friend status were the ones who respected me as a woman and as a person who does have a life outside of Queen Raqui. Someone who has morals and her own way of life that will not be changed for another persons needs.
What makes being Queen Raqui hard is when people want me to change myself to suit them and there thoughts and ways. Are you fucking kidding me. You must have a mental problem. Who are you to dictate to me how i should live my life and what I should believe and do. All of which is a benifit to you? Who the hell are you? your not a part of my life, I didnt ask for you to email me or message me.
My website is a business, yes i was able to make great aquaintances and friends through it. Who all remain on messenger or via email. But i dont call up random strangers. Nor will I go agaisnt my own moral code when dealing with the public. Funny how mad people get when things dont go there way.
SO FOR YOUR ENTERTAINMENT I am putting up an email that i recently got in which a man who wanted me to call him didnt get what he wanted. Funny how when i dont give in to him and his wants or desires i am no longer what he wants. LOL this is crazy and quite funny how he embrasses himself by sounding confused and quite ignorant. He says I am confused? I got exactly what i want i am not confused about the way i live my life. The part that is the most stupid is when he states and I quote.
So, all you had to say in the first place was thanks for the compliments but I'm engaged and things would be cool. What did you not get from my first responce of
"I have a man so I am not interested in any correspondence that isn’t business orientated. Have a good day Raqui" I guess my words have to be exactly like yours now right. Maybe i should use my physic energy to make sure I use the same words that YOU WANT ME TO USE!
Well on to the emails. Hope you enjoy them and understand being a public figure on the net is not always easy. Sometimes you are better off not being polite and ignoring the emails. But yet out of dedication i always response to people as long as they are not sending me explict emails. Maybe i should change my policy?
Hugs to true fans who respect me and love my work. Raqui
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From:
ericfleming23@hotmail.com [mailto:ericfleming23@hotmail.com]
Sent: Saturday, November 03, 2007 4:14 PM
To:
webmaster@queenraqui.comCc:
ericfleming23@hotmail.comSubject: Dear Queen Raqui
Hi my name is Eric. I am a 36 year old african american male form Illinois. I love women like you but in every day live it is hard to find someone as confidne t and sexy as you are you know a real ssbbw. I think that you are gorgeous. If I had the chance to meet you I would treat you like the queen you are. I would like to envite you to call me, i know it's a long shot that you will but here goes, 708-623-3704. I really find you to be very attractive. Seriously, No joke.
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Date: Sat, 3 Nov 2007 17:04:55 -0400
From:
webmaster@queenraqui.comSubject: RE: Dear Queen Raqui
To:
ericfleming23@hotmail.comI have a man so I am not interested in any correspondence that isn’t business orientated.
Have a good day Raqui
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From: Eric Fleming [mailto:ericfleming23@hotmail.com]
Sent: Tuesday, November 06, 2007 6:16 PM
To: Queen Raqui of
www.QueenRaqui.comSubject: RE: Dear Queen Raqui
Congradulations! So you don't even want to form any friendships at all because you have a man? You don't need anyone else but him, hunh. I wasn't trying to do anything more than compliment you and ask for friendsip if anything at all. Don't tell me you being a kind, friendly, gentle person is a sham. I hope you're not a fake. I think it's great what you do but be real. PLEASE.
Eric
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Date: Wed, 7 Nov 2007 08:49:37 -0500
From:
webmaster@queenraqui.comSubject: RE: Dear Queen Raqui
To:
ericfleming23@hotmail.com I am real at this point because I have a man and our plans are to get married I am not going to call random strangers who email me. I wouldn’t have done that if I wasn’t in a relationship. I am not that kind of woman who calls anyone who emails her. Friendship true friendship doesn’t come with stipulations. It comes with respect and time. Would I say you’re a potential friend. No your email doesn’t sound friendly, It sounds like a man who is interested in a woman more than just a friend. You don’t tell potential friends, strangers, people you know nothing about, that they are sexy and you want to meet them. That it is hard to find confident women like them around. Because when your interested in friendship none of that comes into play. Even if I were to consider one day a friend that doesn’t mean I have to call you. The true online friends I have made never heard my voice until years later. Once they had gained my trust and I felt they truly saw me as a friend.
You ask me (So you don't even want to form any friendships at all because you have a man?) Well the answer is 100% that is true. I don’t need anyone else but him. I have many friends and all of them respect us as a couple and any new ones that come into my life are going to be because WE met them and because they like us as a COUPLE. Because we BOTH like them. Because they are people we like to be around and go out with and do many of the wonderful things FRIENDS do.
We are not going to gain friendships because I got an email one day from someone calling me sexy. And that is real and that is what I am about. And if you don’t like it there is nothing I can do about it because I am not changing myself, my beliefs, or my life for you.
By the way if you don’t understand what my site is, It is a business not a dating or friendship site. It is business.
Otherwise have a good day and good luck.
Raqui
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From: Eric Fleming [mailto:ericfleming23@hotmail.com]
Sent: Wednesday, November 14, 2007 6:45 PM
To: Queen Raqui of
www.QueenRaqui.comSubject: RE: Dear Queen Raqui
What ever! I don't know you as a person but you sound confused. I don't see anything wrong with a man or woman letting anyone know that their attractive and want to know them. First of all, no one in this world hasn't met someone of the opposite sex and found them attractive and approached them and then found out they were attached and hasn't kept them as a friend. Unless they were so shallow that all they wanted was sex. Get real. Contrary to popular belief a man and a woman can be friends. I have met a lot of women and found out that they weren't single and have formed friendships from the encounter. So, all you had to say in the first place was thanks for the compliments but I'm engaged and things would be cool. Believe me with all of the diseases out there, I'm not sharing a woman with anyone. It's not that serious. I was just saying that I have never met any women who are big and attractive out here that I would like to get to know. Fine, you are engaged. Good for you but don't try to come to me like I'm harrassing you or something, Please. You are not that good looking. So, don't worry I was not trying to make you think that I had to have you or nothing. In your origional email you said something cold and heartless like; I am not interested in forming friendships. My site is only for bussiness purposes. What do you expect anyone to get from that after touring your site. You can blog with a person, take gifts from them, but you don't want to be friends. That doesn't sound right. Don't worry. I will not tour your little site or try to be your friend or even blog or email after this. There are too many ssbbw out there to worry about the unsincere attitude of one. Better looking ones than you, sexier, smater, kinder, single, real, and some know how take compliments from guys other than their man the right way, RAQUI. You are no queen to me.
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From: Queen Raqui of
www.QueenRaqui.com [mailto:webmaster@queenraqui.com]
Sent: Thursday, November 15, 2007 11:44 AM
To: 'Eric Fleming'
Subject: RE: Dear Queen Raqui
I feel sorry for you, rejection must really hurt for you. If you don’t like the truth it is really on you. I am not going to make friends with anyone who isn’t going to be a friend to me and my Fiancé. You don’t like how a business is run don’t ever own one.
I hope you find that woman who is everything I am not. Because when you do then you will know what it feels like to have your woman call random male strangers who email her online saying they want to be friends. And no you don’t have to blog to me I will be able to post your email for all to see myself.
Have a great day. Raqui
